freakem dress-ing.

Dear Sexy Ladies, 

That's right, you! Now after having written my last post "the magic of layers.", I feel I should express how important it is not too loose your sexiness or more importantly mixing it up. Beyonce knows what she was talking about, you all have a freakem dress hanging in your closet, go get it girl.

 























To a lot of women the idea of integrating sexiness into your wardrobe is frighting as all hell! I am here to tell you that it's fully okay to be afraid, we don't all have the "Victoria Secret Angels" gene. However I would like for woman not to think of sexy outfits as objectifying yourself, cause it's not! Women have come a long way since wearing corset's, gowns and ultimately anything that would cover their body's. Use your sexuality to your advantage, it can be a powerful thing. 

Being sexy doesn't need to be thought of as being skanky, or looking whore-ish. There's perfectly good way's of doing it the classy way, which should be the only way. For example, when creating a sexy outfit try to focus on one body part to emphasize. Or play it up simply with your hair and makeup, add a deep lip color, or a smokey eye or even tousled hair. Another little trick, just add heals! You can be wearing a big baggy sweater with skinny jeans and barely any makeup, but when you add heals it's instant sex appeal. 

"Your clothes should be tight enough to show you're a woman, but loose enough to show your a lady." -Marilyn Monroe

If it's showing a little skin, or even just putting on red lipstick. There's a way to make yourself feel a little more confident and make you shine. 

Love, 
Jess